Marriage that is an obligation in most countries to maintain family bonds is set up in different ways. It is performed by couples to be much happier at first but later it may end up with disagreements between spouses. Further, they may come to a point to divorce. Problems stemming from divorce have great impacts on both individuals and societies. However, it is possible to prevent divorces by taking the right steps in time.
On one hand, the problem of divorce might have dramatic effects on children, divorced individuals, and their community. For instance, a child starts to have social and psychological problems, especially at school soon after his parents have divorced. Furthermore, divorced individuals may not have a sound social relationship easily and they are psychologically affected since they feel humiliated by the society and they need to struggle with life alone. More importantly, the increasing number of divorce damages the values of a community. Namely, marriage is one of the strongest social values which ties not only individuals but also families. Therefore, when couples are separated, their families also lose contact and this eventually weakens a society.
On the other hand, such effects resulting from divorces are significant but there are ways to solve them. First, the couples should know to listen to each other after a disagreement appears. They need to be patient and if one of them gets angry, the other had better stop speaking not to make matters worse. In addition, a couple with a child have stronger attachment and better understanding towards each other than those who do not have children. Therefore, children make families stronger. Furthermore, before marriage people must be completely honest with each other, and they should not pretend to be an ideal husband or wife. In other words, when people manage to know each other truly before marriage, they will hardly have problems after marriage.
In conclusion, it is possible to solve the crises which arise from conflicts between couples during marriage. I strongly believe that if disagreements between couples are neglected or ignored, societies based on good family relations are at the risk of losing their main element. For that reason, present modern life in which divorce rates have increased dramatically imposes everyone to set up ever-lasting marriages and improve their degenerated family structure urgently.